50 “Who knows me better?” questions

How to use this list

1. Pick 10 questions you'd genuinely enjoy hearing your friends guess at.
2. Mix easy ones with a couple only your closest people would get — that's where the arguments start.
3. Read them out loud, or let everyone answer on their phone at the same time with a live game.

Everyday favorites

Easy openers. Everyone should get at least a couple of these right.

• What's my go-to order at a coffee shop?
• What meal would I happily eat every single day?
• Which food will I always refuse, no matter how it's cooked?
• What's my favorite way to spend a free Sunday?
• Which season do I actually enjoy the most?
• What snack disappears fastest in my kitchen?
• What's the one drink I order when someone else is buying?
• Which takeaway do I default to after a long day?
• What's my favorite dessert?
• Sweet, salty, spicy or sour — which one wins with me?

Habits and quirks

The details only people who spend real time with you notice.

• Am I early, exactly on time, or always five minutes late?
• How many alarms do I set in the morning?
• What do I do first thing after waking up?
• Which chore do I put off the longest?
• Do I make my bed every day?
• What's the app I open most on my phone?
• Do I read the reviews before buying, or just buy it?
• How do I take notes — phone, paper, or not at all?
• What sound or noise annoys me the most?
• Which small thing instantly puts me in a good mood?

Friends and social style

Great for a party game — people usually disagree loudly here.

• At a party, am I the first to arrive or the last to leave?
• Do I prefer a big night out or a small table of four?
• Who in the group do I text the most?
• Am I the planner, the driver, the photographer or the chaos?
• What's my move when a plan gets canceled last minute?
• Do I answer a phone call or reply with a message?
• Which friend would I call in an emergency at 3am?
• What's the story about me the group tells over and over?
• Do I remember birthdays or rely on reminders?
• Am I better at giving advice or taking it?

Travel and adventure

Useful for reunion games, where everyone has a different memory of you.

• Window seat or aisle seat?
• Do I pack days ahead or the night before?
• Beach, city or mountains?
• Which country is top of my list right now?
• Do I plan every day of a trip or wing it?
• What's the one thing I always overpack?
• Road trip or flight?
• What's my favorite place I've already been?
• Am I a museum person or a market person?
• Would I rather sleep in a tent or a fancy hotel?

Playful hypotheticals

Answers can't be looked up, so guessers have to actually know you.

• If I won the lottery tomorrow, what's the first thing I'd buy?
• What talent would I pick if I could have one instantly?
• Which fictional world would I choose to live in?
• If I had to sing one song at karaoke, what is it?
• Which animal would I be?
• What would my reality show be called?
• If I could only keep three things from my home, what are they?
• Which decade would I visit if time travel existed?
• What job would I do if money didn't matter?
• What would I put on a billboard for everyone to read?